Sunday, 13 March 2016

Wonders of the World


Inauguration



Good day to you dear friends. Let me begin by thanking God for giving this wonderful gift of life to me and to each one of us. I was thinking what to share on this especial (we need to remember that everyday is God's gift to us and so it is especial) day. I thought of speaking to all of us about ‘The Seven Wonders of the World.’ Can anyone tell me which are the present ‘seven wanders of the world?’. (1. Egypt’s great Pyramids, 2. Taj mahal, 3. Grand canyon, 4. Panama canal, 5. Empire state building, 6. St. Peter’s Basilica, 7. China’s great wall). Do you agree with this answer? How many of you agree with this answer? But I don’t agree with this answer. I am totally confused, because I find myself with a big list of wonders. Finally I have to select the best ones among them and so the seven wonders of the world for me are; “1. To see,  2. to hear, 3. To touch, 4. To taste, 5. To feel, 6. To laugh and 7. To love.”
          So my dear friends, wonders of the world are within us, we need to realize them. Let us be the cause of happiness for other people and let them know that they are loved. Let us thank God for blessing us with these wonders, and be sensitive to the needs of others and be sensitive towards our mother earth. 


Wednesday, 3 February 2016

Gratitude



           
            Every life on earth is sacred and so one way to honour the sacredness of life is to be “Grateful,”- grateful to God, to our own self, and to others. Grateful to God, because he is the giver of life, grateful to oneself, because to honour life, we must start with our own self and then only we can honour life in others.

            We need to be grateful to God for everything, even for the air we breathe and the water we drink. For each new day we must be grateful to Him. Terri Guillemets says, “As each day comes to us refreshed and new, so does my gratitude renew itself daily. The breading of the sun over the horizon is my grateful heart downing upon a blessed world.” So let us renew our gratitude daily and live our lives more meaningfully.
Celebration



            Life is boring if we fail to celebrate it. We do not have to wait for a birthday, a holiday or for any other feast but we need to learn to celebrate this very moment. What is celebration? Martha Washington says, “Think of the magic of that foot, comparatively small, upon which your whole weight rests. It is a miracle, and the dance is a celebration of that miracle.” So let us not wait for an extra ordinary thing to happen in our lives but celebrate each and every moment of our lives.

Sunday, 15 November 2015

Forgiveness



Forgiveness is the virtue that is most difficult to practice. We forgive so that we may heal others and move forward. Forgiveness allows our hearts to stay open so that we may flow love rather than remain contracted. We must choose to be loving and contribute our love to the world. It liberates us from holding on to the past. Mark Twain rightly said, “Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it” Let us try to be more forgiving though some times it hurts.


To be Truthful is to be Human





The birth of every child reveal that there is good in each human being. Truthfulness is innate in each human being. A person is good and truthful from birth but the society, which is a human creation, defiles the human being. Therefore we don’t find all human beings being truthful, but it is innate in each human being, and so we can say, “To be truthful is to be human.” I don’t restrict the word ‘Truthful’ to mean only ‘being realistic’ or ‘telling or expressing the truth.’ I want to see it in a broader perspective that is, being truthful is to be reliable or faithful, loving, kind, generous, patient and all human qualities which make a human being, a human being.
            For example we can say that lord Ram had all these qualities impregnated in him. He was told that he had to go to exile and he knew the reason why he was sent into exile. He was sent into exile due to the evil intentions of Bharat’s (Ram’s brother) mother, so that her son Bharat might become king. As we all know, when Bharat went to meet Ram, he (Ram) did not take revenge or have guilt feelings for Bharat. The lord Ram accepted Bharat with open arms and without guilt. He had love for his brother.
            In today’s world many people have taken the shortcuts in life. Many have adopted the insincere, unfaithful and untruthful life. They do many wrong things but deep down in their heart they hear the inner voice which I would call as truthfulness. It is as precious as a pearl, found in the oyster deep down in the sea. Once you get it you feel, you are the top of the world. In the same way truthfulness is also a pearl of great value in our life. Whoever discovers this pearl (truthfulness) has great value in life, and life full of values is a true life. We are called to live life to the full and we can live life to the full only if we are truthful to ourselves and to the people with whom we live. Being human is nothing but to understand other human beings and feel their feelings. Therefore to be truthful is to be human.
            “to be truthful means to be yourself.” Why do people take the wrong path? Because they messed up their lives and don’t have time to be themselves. Once we realize the treasure within, we don’t need to be accepted by others, because people throw stones at good fruit bearing trees and not at bad trees. In the same way if your inner self says something, you must do it. To hear our inner self we need to be by ourselves and in a state of calm. Many of the great people (Mother Teresa, Mahatma Gandhi, Baba Ambedkar and many more) have become great because they have faced the difficulties and insults and strengthen themselves by hearing their inner voice telling them to stand firm in truthfulness.
            Nothing in nature is for itself, rivers don’t drink water, trees don’t eat fruits, the sun doesn’t give heat or shine for itself. Living for others is the true way of living human life. Many a time we take our lives for granted, which is very bad on our part. Big buildings are built with small bricks. In the same way we must enjoy the little things in life, for one day we will look back and realize the they were the big things. The habit of being truthful needs to be taken care of at the beginning then only in future life, one can start living a truthful life. Truthful life is the identity of living a true human life.
            People, who understood the true value of life, lived their lives to the full and lived it truthfully and meaningfully. As William Penn rightly said, “I expect to pass through life but once. It therefore, there is any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it , as I shall not pass this way again.” Keeping his (William Penn) words in mind whoever lives, lives to the full. Understanding all aspects of life and balancing ones life “is to be a truthful human being”   

Simplify Life



Life is not so simple, it is complicated. Who make the life so difficult? God created the life simple, but it is we who make the life complicated. Some one rightly said, “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.”
     When I think about the village life, it is quite simple. Being a religious I too am called to learn to live a simple life. when life is less complicated, we feel more balanced and peaceful. Let us strive to live a simple life.


Sharing



Buddha says, “Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” It is very true when you share you double your happiness. There is much to share in both the inner and outer aspects of life and there are many different ways in which to share. We can share what we have, and what we know, but most of all we can share who we are from the heart.